Thursday, January 15, 2009

5 Dating Tips for meeting men you will like

A few months back I'd not have considered myself eligible to offer even 1 dating tip , forget about 5 dating tips , but after having spent more than 2 months at a reputable dating site , I think I qualify to advice my readers on dating men.:)

So here are 5 dating tips to meet the kind of man who will make you blush :

1) Expose yourself to places where men visit , be it online or offline . Don't bottle yourself up and expect your Mr perfect to land on your lap from the sky. That just won't happen. You will have to go out there or join a dating sight to give yourself any realistic chance of meeting more men.

2) Learn the art of conversing. There is a certain way of talking that makes most men respond.Learn and practice it. Don't just flirt.

3) Dress appropriately- It's good to look sexy and beautiful , but don't wear anything that you are not comfortable carrying. By being yourself , you give yourself the best shot of attracting men who will like the real you.

4) Make a mental note of character traits that put you off. If you find this hard to do , then recall your ex-boy friends and you will feel surer.You don't want to fall for a man who will bring a baggage of traits that resulted in a broken relationship for you.

5) Improve yourself - This may be difficult , but it's a necessary step. If you have had break ups in the past , then try remembering what your ex pointed out as a reason for the breakup. Be reasonable and if you secretly agreed with his judgement , then try to make amends. None of us are perfect , but we can endevor to improve ourselves.

Those are my 5 tips to meet men who will make you feel special. Now go get those men.

Can Kids help a troubled relationship ?

Brad Pitt didn't want to have kids with Jennifer Aniston because he was not comfortable with the relationship they shared. Well, that's what I have heard .But if they had children , would it have helped salvage their troubled relationship ? Some of my friends say that kids do indeed help a derailed relationship, but I hold a different opinion. Kids can help you put your problems aside , however, they don't make them disappear.

If there is a problem in a relationship , then that needs to be sorted -Period.Otherwise, they will keep coming back - Sooner or later.And I think Brad Pitt understood that when he was involved with Jennifer. And IMO, he did the right thing by trying to be sure that they could make a good couple before opting to become parents.

If the problems persist after you become parents, the your kids may have to bear the brunt of your wrong decisions , which of course no parent wants.So it's better to be sure than hope that kids will fix everything in a troubled relationship.That's what I think anyway.

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Don't Blame Me!

Good girls are made of sugar and spice,
but I'm a bad girl made of whipped cream & ice.
I'm a hottie with a body n I wanna get naughty!
I Don't play hard to get...I play to get you hard...
"Roses are red Pickles are green I love your legs And what's in between"
Nice girls always finish last so sometimes it's better to be bad
I don't worship the devil, the devil worships me
Only good girls go to heaven...I wasn't invited
Good girls blush during naughty scenes in a movie,
I smile cause I know I can do better
"When I am good I am very, very good,
but when I am bad, I'm better."

In pursuit of the perfect match

Finding the right match is as hard as winning a lottery and yet each one of us keep looking till we find our soul mate.Not quite as easy as having sex. So what do you do to increase your chances of hooking up with your perfect match ? Well, the best answer I have got so far is to keep dating till you are finally convinced of having found your soul mate.In my quest to find my perfect match I have registered at adultfriendfinder.It's an online dating site and I am yet to discover what's in store for me. This will be the first time ever that I am trying dating through a website and don't know for sure how sweet or bitter it's going to be at Adult Friend Finder but I hope I find someone who will bring my fantasies alive ;-) If you have a better way of finding the right kind of date then let me know ;-)